What Selena Gomez Thinks About Being Told She's 'Not Sexy Enough'

Selena Gomez doesn't need to twerk or be scandalous for her fans to love her. In a nod to her good girl image, the former Disney Channel star told fans at her sold-out show at the Mohegan Sun Arena Saturday to be true to themselves – just like she is.

 "Every day I get told I'm not sexy enough or I'm not cool enough or if I did this or if I did that, I would have people who love me," the 21-year-old singer said. "Look at this room! I don't have to do any of that to have love!" She also talked about how she appreciates that her young fans and their parents "trust" in her for being squeaky clean. In a recent interview on The Ben Davis and Kelly K radio show, she talked about how her "rock star" moments are "the PG-13 version."

 Asked if she would ever appear naked like fellow Disney star Miley Cyrus, who made headlines with her racy video for "Wrecking Ball," Gomez replied, "Hey, I don't judge people. But to each their own." While she looked wistful at times, Gomez held it together when she sang "Love Will Remember," the emotional ballad reportedly about ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber. She did break down onstage at her Oct. 16 show in Brooklyn, when she sang the lines, 'We used to be inseparable, I used to think that I was irreplaceable," spurring chatter she was missing him.

Selena Gomez Vows Never To Make A Movie Like 'Monte Carlo' Again

Selena Gomez is determined to put her Disney days right behind her, and vows not to make such tween-friendly movies like 'Monte Carlo' again. The former Wizards of Waverly Place star, who is currently dating Justin Bieber, has been harping on about breaking the mould when it comes to her roles - wanting something racier and more exciting, and she explained to Teen Vogue why.

"Monte Carlo was a good step for me at the time, but I would never want to do something like that again," the 20-year-old said. "It's frustrating whenever I want the roles that no one's even thinking about me for, and being like, 'No' with all these other ones." Selena, who recently quashed reports that she was to star in the movie-adaptation of Fifty Shades Of Grey, added: "I don't necessarily feel accomplished. I want to create a whole different personality when it comes to acting." Well considering Selena's boyfriend Bieber is set to start making movies too, with likes of Mark Wahlberg, it sounds as if she's got some competition on her hands.

Selena Gomez is flying solo and she doesn't seem happy about it.. Check out the following pics..

Selena Gomez Unspoken Victim in Justin Bieber Scuffle

Selena Gomez is the unspoken victim in Justin Bieber’s scuffle with photographers. The two have been dating for more than a year and she’s had to weather his rude behavior more than once. Selena, who is more reserved and considerate, has stuck by Justin every time he’s thrown a boyish tantrum.

But it seems like it’s only a matter of time before she gets fed up with his behavior. She is too sophisticated and mature to repeatedly be caught up in his misadventures, and it could start weighing on her image.

In the latest incident, Justin and Selena went to The Commons at Calabasas Shopping Center in Calabasas, Calif., to catch a movie. As they left, some photographers were outside waiting for them. When one of the photographers allegedly refused to move so Justin could drive off in his car, the 18-year-old singer got out and started scuffling with the photographer. Selena reportedly had to get out of the car and calm Justin down. Justin not only allegedly shoved the lensman, but in more rude behavior, flipped off the photographers after his blow up.

The paparazzo, of course, filed a police report charging Bieber with assault. Now he’s wanted for questioning by police. Undoubtedly, Selena will have to give a statement as well. Who needs that? The paparazzi can be overbearing and intrusive, but it doesn’t justify immature behavior. What’s worse, even though police want to speak with him, Bieber blew them off, too. He flew to Oslo, Noway, to give what he said was a “secret concert.”  Bieber lost his cool with fans who were following him at the theme park last February. The fans were stunned. His rep later said the fans were harassing him.

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez look more in love than ever

Justin Bieber and his pop star girlfriend, Selena Gomez enjoyed a romantic lunch at Benihana restaurant in Sherman Oaks, California, on Saturday. A source told Hollywoodlife.com, "They are like regulars and are always really friendly. When they came in for lunch, they looked more in love than ever.

Justin was holding Selena's hand on the table. They split an order of the vegetable tempura and Hibachi steak. They had green tea ice cream for dessert." As well as being friendly, Justin also reportedly left a generous amount of money for the waiting staff. The source added, "Justin once again left a very generous tip. He left almost the same amount as the entire bill."

 Justin, 18, and Selena, 19, may have been celebrating after the Boyfriend singer completed buying his first home, a seven-bedroom mansion in the Californian suburb of Calabasas for $6.5 million. The 10,000 square-foot property contains eight bathrooms, a library, cinema with stadium seating, a wine cellar, a wet bar and there is a pond within the 1.3-acre grounds, according to the Los Angeles Times.

Justin is thought to be keen on installing some high-tech gadgets in his mansion - which was constructed in 2005 and had been listed at $8.75 million - which also features a big guest house, large garage and pool, as well as a games room.

 The star's weekend took a turn for the worse on Sunday night however, when he was involved in an altercation with a paparazzi, which has led to him being accused of assault.

Somebody to Grope! Justin Bieber grabs a handful of Selena Gomez's bottom during Washington trip

Selena Gomez Taken to Hooters--Really, Justin?

Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber went on another date on Sunday--this time in Costa Mesa, California. Justin took his sweetheart to Hooters for dinner. Really, Justin? Couldn't you have done a little bit better than that?

According to Hollywood Life, the two appeared to be enjoying a quiet chat, alone in their booth at the restaurant. But should Justin Bieber have taken Selena to a place where the main pastime is staring at girls in very skimpy outfits?

Both Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez appeared on stage that same evening--Justin surprising guests by showing up for the opening night of Selena's concert tour. Fans must have been thrilled to get a double dose of hot and heavy teen fever, all in the very same show.

But back to that date, it seems that a few things could have been in play here. Most likely it's that Selena is so comfortable in her own skin and with her relationship with the Biebs, that she could care less about him sneaking glances at tight tops and short shorts. It's possible, too, that Hooters was the only pace they could find that was convenient for a quick bite to eat. They do have awfully good wings, you know. And the third option is that Justin Bieber is just plain tacky, and doesn't know any better, Selena Gomez was much too polite to say anything to oppose his choice in dining options. That one, however, really doesn't seem too likely.

So what do you think? Did Justin totally bomb on selecting a place for his and Selena's date on Sunday? Or was it a mutual agreement or one of simple convenience between the two?

Selena Gomez Wears Justin Bieber’s Purple Plaid Shirt in London

Selena Gomez must be missing her man!The starlet was spotted in London Friday wearing Justin Bieber’s purple plaid shirt while holding a fluffy white teddy bear. Awww.

The singers were together a few weeks ago for Selena’s Monte Carlo movie premiere in NYC, andduring the trip he was spotted wearing the purple button down. It’s clearly found a new home since.

The two parted ways after their early July reunion and Selena’s been super busy promoting her movie and new album in the UK since then, while Justin’s been all over the place too. He recently partied with Usher to celebrate the anniversary of “One Time,” and has been showing up at malls to advertise his new fragrance, Someday. This weekend, he’s camping!

Justin Bieber, ‘Camping Is Legit’

Justin Bieber‘s mom has warned him that Selena Gomez accidental pregnancy could destroy their careers. Source told Star: ‘Justin’s been told straight up that if he’s having sex, he had better use protection. Everyone knows their intentions are good, but they also know how easy it is to get worked up when you’re young...and in love. It would only take a few moments of weakness to cause what could be a lifetime of regret. The most important thing is Justin and Selena don’t throw away their amazing futures because they were careless and foolish.‘ Justin and Selena spent July 4 on a 155-foot yacht in the Sag Harbour Marina, New York

'I'm young, I'm having fun': Selena Gomez keeps cool over relationship with Justin Bieber

She’s dating one of the world’s most famous pop stars, but Selena Gomez is keeping cool about her relationship with Justin Bieber, saying they're just having fun.

The singer appeared on Daybreak this morning but all she’d say about her boyfriend was: ‘It’s fun, I’m young, it’s nice, I’m having fun.’

And when ITV presenter Dan Lobb suggested that 17-year-old Justin was her toyboy, she looked shocked and said ‘What?’

After not being very impressed with the remark about her younger man, The 18-year-old then performed her new single Love You Like A Love Song in a loose T-shirt and jeans.

Selena is in London promoting her third album, When The Sun Goes Down, with her band The Scene and said she’s really excited about going on her first tour with her band this summer.

Selena Gomez Sucks At Playing Polo

Selena Gomez has revealed how her movie script had to be rewritten because she is so bad at playing polo!

The singing actress had to take lessons before shooting Monte Carlo last year, but she still couldn't get the hang of it.

Explaining why writers had to change her storyline, Selena shared, "You want to know a funny story? In the original script, Grace was supposed to be good at polo, and Cordelia was the one who didn’t care.

"But I had two straight weeks of polo training and I was so bad at it that they rewrote the script! I could not get it," she told Bellingham Herald. "The polo stick was so heavy, and I was already trying to focus on the horse.

"So in the end, they taught me how to ride western style, which was easier for me. That was better," adds Selena, who is currently in London promoting her new record, When The Sun Goes Down.

This week Gomez revealed how she hates the paparazzi taking photos of her when she's out having fun.

Gomez not looking for 'The One' yet

Selena Gomez has revealed she doesn't view boyfriend Justin Bieber as her soul mate - because she's only 18.

The Wizards Of Waverly Place star also said she wouldn't rule out making music with the Baby singer, 17, at some point.

When asked if Justin was 'the one' Selena replied: "No, I'm 18!"

The teen star remained tight-lipped about her relationship, but admitted it was tough having her love life in the public eye.

"It's awkward, it comes with territory," she added.

As for a duet with Justin, Selena - who was in London this week to celebrate the launch of Disney Channel HD - said: "Maybe. Not any time soon."

The actress and singer recently posted a video on YouTube of herself getting starstruck meeting her celebrity crush Shia LaBeouf.

"I've been obsessed with him since I was like, 15," she admitted.

"He's older, I admire him. I look up to him more than I want to marry him."

Selena Gomez: It’s weird that girls hate me because I’m dating Justin Bieber

Selena Gomez has admitted she finds it “weird” how her boyfriend Justin Bieber’s fans want to see her dead.

And the 18-year-old Wizards Of Waverley Place star has vowed to ignore the attention.

All hell broke out in February when the couple went public at the Oscars after months of secretly dating.

In May, they went on holiday to Hawaii and were photographed kissing constantly, even while flying together on a parasail and on a jet-ski.

Since February, 17-year-old Bieber’s fans – known as Beliebers – have been venting their anger at Selena and there are even I Hate Selena Gomez Facebook sites. But she refuses to be scared of the death threats and instead tries to block them out.

She said:”It’s weird, it’s just weird, but I don’t pay attention to it, I just try to live my life as normal as possible. I just like to not focus on what the whole world is saying about me and just be happy with myself. I try to not read magazines or the internet but it’s obviously unavoidable. I mean, it’s everywhere, so there are moments where I read things that hurt my feelings. But not most of the time. I don’t surround my life with magazines or the internet.”

Couples Watch: Selena Gomez & Justin Bieber Get Ice Cream in the Hamptons

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez have hit the Hamptons! The young couple dropped over $700 at Flying Point Surf and Sports in Bridgehampton, N.Y., according to an eyewitness. Gomez picked up Toms wedges and a dress, and Bieber also bought a pair of Toms shoes, among other items. "He kept calling her babe," a source says of the cute couple. Next, they headed across the street to Candy Kitchen for ice cream. But when Bieber didn't have any cash on him to pay – he offered to walk to a nearby ATM – another customer treated them.

Details of Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez's Date Aboard Luxury Yacht

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez spent part of their Independence Day weekend frolicking on a yacht, but kept things age-appropriate. Offering details of the particular date, New York Daily News reported that the teen couple boarded luxury yacht Inspiration in Sag Harbor Marina, New York on Friday, July 1.

An eyewitness, namely William Coldwell, told the publication that the "Baby" hitmaker and his Disney darling girlfriend were fooling around on the back deck of the yacht at around 6 P.M. that day. "They were messing around," he recalled, before assuring, "They showed affection, but it wasn't like they were groping each other."

William additionally claimed that the most risque moment the two shared was when 17-year-old Justin "takes off his shirt". Accordingly, the twosome also let their inner child take over as they played patty-cake on board the yacht. Among those joining Justin and Selena on board were Hip-Hop mogul Russell Simmons and former Florida Governor Charlie Crist.

Selena is said to be bringing good influence to Justin. A source told the Chicago Sun-Times recently that the "Who Says" singer helps the teen heartthrob in keeping his temper under control. "Maybe it's because she 'gets' it, fully understands the whole fame thing because she deals with it herself," so said the source. "But boy, she sure can make him laugh at the insanity of it all, and get him to relax and have fun."